The Notebook, kept by Octavia: a small territory between Piccadilly and Pall Mall, written down
20 entries · by Octavia
Every concierge keeps a notebook. Ours is kept by Octavia, and until now it lived in a drawer: the bar where a first drink goes best, the table that stays quiet at nine, the lane where a car can wait without blocking anyone. The Notebook is that drawer, opened. It is written for guests planning an evening in the few streets this house knows best, and it assumes you would rather read one exact page than ten vague ones.
The territory is small on purpose. Albemarle Street, our namesake, and Dover Street beside it. Piccadilly, from the Circus to the edge of the park. Green Park and the hotels that face it. South of the avenue, St James's, with its clubs, shirtmakers and small hotels. North and west, the squares and dining rooms of Mayfair. Almost everything in these pages lies within ten minutes' walk of everything else.
The opening entries concern hotels, tables and the hours after dinner: Brown's by the fire, the American Bar at The Stafford, the ceremony of The Ritz, the small houses of St James's, a dinner composed from first glass to kerb, Wiltons, the caviar supper, a club dining room entered as a guest, the martini at Dukes and the cigar terraces that close a formal night. Travel, manners, the London season and the working trip follow in later entries.
Nothing in the Notebook is sponsored. Octavia chooses every hotel, bar, club and restaurant for its manners, names each one as an address only, and has no understanding with any of them. Other people's opening times and prices change without notice, so you will not find them here. Our own ladder, from £600 for an hour to weekends from £6,000, is on the rates page. A companion's name opens her page in the introductions, and each kind of evening is described under By Invitation. When a page becomes a plan, write to Octavia.
Written by Octavia
Hotels, tables, arrivals and manners around Albemarle Street, set down plainly. Newest first.

// Hotels
4 entries- 6 min readBrown's of Albemarle Street, and an evening that begins at the hearthThe hotel on our namesake street has kept its fires lit since the year Victoria came to the throne. Where to meet inside Brown's, how to pace the evening from its door and who to ask for.
- 5 min readFirst, the American Bar: half an hour under the pennants at The StaffordA lane off St James's Street, a ceiling hung with other people's keepsakes and thirty unhurried minutes before anything else is decided. Why The Stafford's bar is the right first room.
- 5 min readJacket, tie and a room that rises to meet you: why formality still works at The RitzA jacket and tie are still requested of gentlemen at The Ritz, and the evening is better for it. The rooms, the code, the small courtesies, and how a companion makes the ceremony feel easy.
- 5 min readThe small palaces of St James's: few rooms, deep chairs and nobody calling out your nameSt James's never built big hotels. It built small ones, tucked into lanes and courtyards, where the staff know regulars by sight and say nothing aloud. A short list, and how to use it well.
// At table
4 entries- 5 min readSigned in: dining as a guest in the clubs of St James's and Pall MallThe clubs of St James's Street and Pall Mall run on rules that are rarely written down. How an invited guest arrives, dines and leaves well, and how a companion fits a candlelit room.
- 5 min readThe caviar supper: late, small and extravagant on purposeNear midnight: one tin, one bottle, two spoons of mother of pearl. How to hold a caviar supper in a Mayfair or St James's suite, what the label on the tin tells you, and why smaller is better.
- 5 min readThe luxury dinner, composed from the first glass to the car at the kerbA dinner at this level is composed rather than choreographed. The host's decisions, taken in order, from naming the purpose to holding the car door, for four hours that never feel arranged.
- 5 min readWiltons, where the booths kept secrets long before anyone called it discretionWiltons traces its story to 1742 and a shellfish seller near the Haymarket. What the Jermyn Street rooms are like now, how to order by the season, and why a booth still keeps a secret.
// After dark
2 entries- 5 min readMartini hour at Dukes: the trolley, the twist and the gentle rule of twoA small room off St James's Place, a trolley wheeled to your chair and a martini poured so cold the glass frosts. How the ritual works, what to order, and why stopping at two is part of the pleasure.
- 5 min readThe cigar terraces of St James's, and the long last chapter of a formal eveningA cigar is the slowest way to end an evening, and St James's has kept the habit longer than anywhere else in London. Why smokers sit outside, where to buy, and the manners of the terrace.
// Form and manners
2 entries- 5 min readThe quiet classics: old world manners at a London dinner, worn lightlyRising when she returns to the table, the coat held low, the kerb side of the pavement: the traditional courtesies that still improve an evening, the ones to retire, and how to wear them without ceremony.
- 5 min readThe unhurried evening: why nobody at the top tier looks at a watchTime is the one thing a companion's fee buys, and the best evenings forget about it. Why a longer booking changes the mood, how a good evening moves through three tempos, and who sets the pace.
// Arrivals and departures
7 entries- 5 min readFlying private with company: the quiet airfields, the manifest and the steps upLondon's business airfields make a departure feel like leaving a hotel. How Farnborough and Biggin Hill work, how a companion appears on a manifest, and what to pack for a small cabin.
- 5 min readFor guests from across the Atlantic: London companionship, translatedThe same language, different habits. A short translation of London for American guests: how dates and floors are written, what gratuities mean here, when the city dines, and how an introduction is arranged.
- 5 min readForty-eight hours elsewhere: Paris, Milan and the Riviera, planned from LondonThree weekends within a short journey of London, each planned in one exchange with Octavia: Paris on the morning train, Milan for the eye, and the Riviera, in season or quietly out of it.
- 5 min readLanding long-haul: why the first evening should ask very little of youA long flight leaves the body in another time zone for a day or two. Why night one belongs to a short, quiet supper, how the direction you flew changes the plan, and when to save the grand dinner.
- 6 min readSeveral days abroad, one companion: how an international journey is put togetherWhat changes when an evening becomes a journey of several days in another country: the facts Octavia needs, the papers worth checking, the pace that keeps a trip pleasant, and who travels best.
- 5 min readThe third person in the car: chauffeurs, briefings and the door held openA driver sees the start and the end of an evening and hears most of the middle. How to brief one without explaining anything, where your companion sits, and why the car door still matters.
- 5 min readTravel arrangements, settled on paper: who books what, and how far aheadA journey with a companion runs on a short list of arrangements: dates, tickets, rooms and transfers. Who handles each one, how far ahead to raise a trip, and what happens when a plan has to move.
From the page to the evening
If an entry gave you an idea, send it to Octavia with a date. She arranges the rest, from the table to the hour of arrival.